I found an old message from 1998:
D. A. Carson speaks on “Distorting the Love of God” spoken at Dallas Theological Seminary in 1998, the lecture he may have referred to in his insightful and helpful book, The Difficult Doctrine of the Love of God.
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You can find the rest of D. A. Carson’s messages I’ve found here.